What Clients Say

Wilder has an extensive somatic toolkit that she employed with skill and tact during my journey, allowing my experience to unfold naturally while providing exactly the support I needed. Her ability to track and attune stood out as a particular strength. I felt genuinely held throughout.

During my journey, parts emerged that I had known about for years but had never been able to access on my own, including deeply held material from my earliest formative years. Wilder’s skills with Hakomi and early childhood parts work made it possible for these parts to surface, release what they had been carrying, and integrate in ways that have remained with me in the months since.

I also want to highlight how Wilder navigates consent and boundaries in ceremony spaces. She is a shining example of truly trauma informed care: proactive, clear, and never once pushing a boundary. Touch was offered masterfully and always with active, ongoing consent, in a way that enhanced rather than disrupted my experience.

Wilder has particular strengths working with people with trauma, especially early life trauma, and with people doing deep work to change core beliefs about themselves. Her grounded presence feels unflappable, as if she can handle anything that may come up.

— Client

I didn’t know what would come up for me during my session, but I’m really glad Wilder was with me. I felt very safe; there was a palpable sense of care in the space she created. I was able to cry for hours and come apart emotionally, which was exactly what I needed, without ever feeling judged or pressured.

As someone who is neurodivergent and hypersensitive to touch, I was nervous about physical contact during the experience. Wilder asked me about my boundaries around touch from the very beginning and checked in consistently throughout, offering support in a way that always felt like a genuine invitation, never an assumption. I felt completely safe to accept or decline.

The preparation sessions were thorough and helped me feel genuinely ready. Wilder set clear expectations, made space for my questions, and gave me rituals at the start of the journey that helped me arrive with intention. I would happily recommend her to anyone looking for a guide with real integrity and care.

— Client

Wilder created a profound sense of safety that allowed me to go to places within myself I had never been able to access before, including some of my deepest shame and shadow material. That safety was the foundation for everything.

Her preparation was exceptional: structured agendas, meaningful homework that helped me clarify my intentions, and a recap document in the days before my journey to support my readiness. During the journey itself, I could feel the immense care she had put into holding the space. The container felt sacred and intentional.

What moved me most was how Wilder handled a difficult moment that arose between us during the journey. Rather than avoiding it, she helped us navigate it with such skill and compassion that what could have been a rupture became one of the most meaningful parts of the experience, deepening my trust and helping me more fully face my material. That kind of skilled relational presence is something I couldn’t have provided for myself.

The attunement I experienced with Wilder is something I’ll carry with me long after this work.

— Client

Working with Wilder was a transformative and healing experience, with ample preparation, personal reflection, and integration of our work together. This highly trained practitioner has a unique ability to oversee what is being said, what is being reflected through body language, and what threads of inquiry are ready to be examined. Her therapeutic set and setting are warm, safe, and joyful, allowing for the personal work of inner transformation to unfold. I would recommend to anyone near and dear, as a catalyst for growth and repair.

— Client